Oh, look! Someone who thinks he's found the cure! (Seriously, this guy put an ad in The Statesman-Utah State's school paper-I just discovered it today.)
Although I appreciate the three or four additional viewers you brought to my blog with this, I'm curious to hear your side of the story. --Is dating and having relationships something that people are just born to "get" or "not get", or is it something people can learn and improve on?
My biggest message isn't that people are "diseased" or that they're somehow terrible idiots because they aren't actively trying to get married. My entire blog is devoted to getting people to look at dating in a different light--one that makes it more casual and everyday rather than something to be feared or mocked. I try to Help people who want to improve rather than encourage people to blame society for things they are uncomfortable with. The truth of the matter is that SOME people recognize that they are "clueless" and they want to change that, but there are very few places that give them explanations about how to become less clueless.--For everyone else who thinks they know everything they need to know about dating, I have nothing to say to them. They probably do know what they need to get by.
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That's frightening
Agreed. Just adds fuel to my soap box, if you ask me.
Jalayne,
Although I appreciate the three or four additional viewers you brought to my blog with this, I'm curious to hear your side of the story. --Is dating and having relationships something that people are just born to "get" or "not get", or is it something people can learn and improve on?
My biggest message isn't that people are "diseased" or that they're somehow terrible idiots because they aren't actively trying to get married. My entire blog is devoted to getting people to look at dating in a different light--one that makes it more casual and everyday rather than something to be feared or mocked. I try to Help people who want to improve rather than encourage people to blame society for things they are uncomfortable with.
The truth of the matter is that SOME people recognize that they are "clueless" and they want to change that, but there are very few places that give them explanations about how to become less clueless.--For everyone else who thinks they know everything they need to know about dating, I have nothing to say to them. They probably do know what they need to get by.
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